The Hairball Herald

How to Interact with a Cat

Because of their reputation, some people may be more anxious when it comes being around cats. Here are some tips to follow to make sure interaction with a cat doesn't end with scratches or hisses.

a cat licking another cat
Image is "Cats in the Spring" by zaimoku_woodpile, licensed under CC BY 2.0

Tip 1: Watch Its Posture

A cat might be displaying aggression if it portrays the following traits:

If you see these signs, it may be best to just leave the cat alone instead of forcing an interaction with it while it's in a bad mood.

Tip 2: Let the Cat Feel Like Its in Control

Letting the cat lead will allow you to know if it wants to interact with you or not. Here is a list of do's and don't when you're interacting with a cat:

Do's Don'ts
Get down to the cat's lavel Approach the cat from above
Offer a closed hand, like your fist Offer an open hand
Speak gently Make eye contact
Wait for the cat to approach you and show interest Make sudden movements and act too fast

Tip 3: Evaluate and Analyze

Dr. Lauren Finka, a feline welfare and behavior scientist, created the CAT acronym for a friendly cat interaction:

C – Did you give the cat a CHOICE about whether or not it wanted to interact with you?
A – Are you paying ATTENTION and looking out for any subtle signs that the cat is uncomfortable?
T – Where are you TOUCHING the cat, and does the cat want you to keep touching it?

Regarding the last point, there are many areas of a cat's body that you probably should not touch or pet if you are not acquainted with the cat. The safest area to pet a cat is its face, the back and tail aren't recommended depending on the cat. You should not try to pet a cat on its belly or on their legs. Again, it may depend on the cat and your relationship with it, but a general rule of thumb is to stick to its face and head.