My Definitions

Havin'
Having your way with life. Achieving every thing that you want to accomplish. Ex: "I just got this Benz, bought my momma a new crib, switchin' up my swag too. Man I'm havin for real."
Ambition
Doing anything by all means necessary to achive goals. Ex: Putting in extra work in and out the classroom to get a 4.0 means that you have ambition towards getting a good job with your soon-to-be degree.
Oberasnt
My definition is when you notice everything around you but say little about it. Ex: I could be out with some friends and oberve that they might be treating me a weird way, I'll take note of that but won't confront thema about it.